As an awesome surprise, my friend Venus DiMila called in and became an excellent addition to the discussion. Yes, loving sex can heal the deepest of wounds, including the wounds you inflict on yourself.
You are born of sex. Your every body cell is a sex cell, all your energy is sex energy. So if religions teach that sex is bad, sex is sin, they have condemned you completely. And not only have they condemned you, now you will condemn yourself. ~Osho
To be alive is to be sexual. If you are against sex, then you will be against everything. And a person who is against everything is bound to be neurotic, mad, and you cannot help him. ~Osho