Spirituality

I Had It All Wrong (But I Can Always Change My Mind)

Guys, if you want to see how brave you are, allow your feminine side to rise above the teachings of your ancestors. If your sense of courage isn’t challenged then, well, you aren’t doing it right. Or you had awesome ancestors.

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Conscious Men & Romantic Relationships: It Ain’t Easy Being Easy. (An Elephant Journal Article)

We have all uttered vows in our lives that we’ve broken. I’ve promised “till death do us part” and so on only to be parted before death. We have all promised eternity, fidelity, honor and […]

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I Love You

I Love You ~ My role is not to get “lost in you” but to remain “found in me”, and then to bring those discoveries into the space we share as wonderful gifts of love. There […]

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Love is Labor-less

Love is Labor-less I cannot chase you, or hound you, or wish myself upon you. I cannot search for you, or turn over stones to see you, or break boulders to uncover you. I know […]

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I Have Tried, Failed, and for this I am Sorry

I need to speak your language. I need to speak in a way that you will understand. I need to remember your language, the first language I was taught, in order to talk to you […]

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God I love this place!

I walk. I marvel at how the once soft, fluffy sands have become hard and unforgiving in the winter’s chill. I’m alone with my thoughts save the sounds of the surf crashing behind me; the […]

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Ode to an Old Friend

I shouldn’t be doing this.  I have so much to do, and I just don’t have the time to sit and write right now. Yet, like some obsessed creature of habit, I have no choice. […]

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A Pure and Holy Selfishness (An Introduction)

Yes, Eve, it is possible to revisit the Garden of Eden, but first you need to wake up from your nightmare.

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